REEFCushion Phantom Men's Flip Flop, Ultra Soft Cushion Footbed

Can the shipper please ship out my order ? Its been weeks since I've ordered.!

The description on these says "mens" but when I put them in my cart, they say "womens." Which are these?

What is the strapmade out of? If its leather, is it a hard leather?

Are these the shiny ones? I hate those. My feet slip around in them.