Soften Her - Soften Body Hair, Exfoliate, and Prevent In-grown Hairs

Let me explain why I got these first. I decided to try shaving down there for the first time. Even though I read up on the best way to do it, got a brand new, 5 blade razor, very good shave cream, etc... I still ended up with ingrown hairs! I was frustrated and itching. I tried to exfoliate but frankly I didn't want to touch that area cause it was so prickly. So I found and ordered these. I was a little hesitant because of what people said about pain but frankly, I didn't have any pain issues at all. And I did it during that time of the month which should be the time you are most sensitive. My only real complaint is the design/size. I found it slightly awkward to get in there with the round shape. If it were my design, I would have made it a finger shape which would have made it easier to get into places. I have to say that these definitely took the edge off. It helped exfoliate the skin which made the bumps not so painful or itchy. Also, I didn't mind putting my hand there anymore since it didn't feel as prickly. So I would purchase them again and I think they did the job but I may need to get used to the shape in order to use them more effectively.

I had bought my husband the men's version of this product (The Soft Goat) because his stubble used to scratch me when we kissed. It worked so well that I had wished at the time that there was a women's version and lucky for me, my wish came true. I get a brazilian wax every 6 weeks or so and as soon as the hair starts to grow back, it is annoyingly itchy for me and my husband has the same problem I had with his stubble (if you know what I mean.) There are 2 main reasons I like Soften Her: I no longer get ingrown hairs in my lady region and the hair itself becomes soft, which in turn means it does not stick to my clothes or prevent any potential intimate sessions.The packaging is similar to the men's product in that there are 3 softening pads and an instruction page inside the box. Both products work the same way, although it seems as though the ladies' version is softer. To use a softening pad, you just slip your fingers underneath the strap on the back and apply it to your clean body hair and work in small circles. The key here is to be gentle! If you press to hard, it hurts. After 30 seconds or so, the hair is softer. I like to use it immediately before my waxing appointment too. It seems as though it makes the experience slightly less painful. The same pad can be used more than once and it's really a judgement call as to when its time to start using a new one. I can get about 5 uses out of one pad which makes it pretty economical too.

i use it when i think it'll work for me but otherwise, you have to be careful because it'll give you tiny scratches that burrnn and get annoying and turn ur skin red. i wish it worked for me the way i expected it to. :( be very GENTLE when trying it for the first time. it should feel like a feather when you use it, otherwise it might scratch you

These work as advertised, but they're really rough on sensitive skin. It's essentially fine sandpaper. I used it and my skin burned for days after. If I were to use it again I wouldn't exfoliate in the shower for at least a day beforehand, then expect some sensitivity after. So be careful!

Ok, here's the deal with these little pads- they do take off the stubble on your legs, but I had to scrape my legs so much that my legs are still stinging the next day. Also, they are $12 for 3 pads and it would take 3 pads just to do my legs one time- so they are not cost effective at all. I won't be buying again.

The worst personal care product I've ever purchased. After using this product in accordance with the directions (ie. very softly, etc) my skin was terribly irritated - went through various stages of extremely sore to extremely itchy. The problem did not resolve for about a week, maybe longer. The material it is made of it some artificial sandpaper type stuff and I think it actually burned me. I do have slightly sensitive, very white skin but not to the point where I have ever had a reaction from a product like this. I bought it in the hope it would make the hairs look less obvious in between waxes. So much for that! Had to cover my skin for over a week because it looked unsightly.

I bought these hoping they would function like they're advertised, but I'm a little disappointed. I have fairly sensitive skin and all it really did was make it irritated. That being said, I only used it a few days in a row before I gave up. I pay try again for a week or so to see if it really helps, but honestly I'm not optimistic. I definitely wouldn't buy these again.

I was over enthusiastic about using it and rubed too hard on my skin. Ouch. And it took forever to remove my thick dark sexy leg hairs :-)