How To Set Up An FLR

I read this book twice, and it's okay as far as it goes, it goes into significant detail over what an FLR would be like if the woman wasn't a bitch, and the man had a backbone. The problem I have with the book is that it basically assumes an FLR has to involve things that I personally find very objectionable, like chastity. She basically says that the male should have no say in the matter, he's getting locked up whether he likes it or not. A very big not as far as I am concerned. By saying this she is more or less voiding the point she keeps making that everything is democratically decided upon before any agreement is signed, if chastity is non-negotiable then what else gets imposed ex post facto? If he has a problem with chastity is the whole thing over? What about pegging, humiliation, cuckolding? I find the whole thing very suspect.You can probably tell I am not into FLR. I'm not, but I wouldn't be interested in a MLR either. I never had any problem democratically discussing everything with a partner and coming to decisions based on mutual agreement. Having anything imposed on me is pretty much anathema to my way of thinking. So why did I read the book if I dislike femdom? Because you have to learn about something to know if you are going to like it or not, and I learned I didn't like it.There are definitely worse ways to spend an hour or so than reading this. If you like femdom you are going to be nodding your head at everything she says here. If you are like me you are going to be shaking your head, at least at some of it. It's not all bad, far from it, she does encourage couples to talk more, and there is nothing bad about that. You don't have to be in an FLR to talk though, and having a partner impose anything on you against your will isn't the path to a healthy relationship, despite what the author says here.Tl;dr I spent a few pounds to lean I didn't like something. I wish I had learned I didn't like smoking after the first puff and not wait until twenty-five years later. The book did its job.

An excellent read very informative. Gets people thinking about how they want in their relationship set up, good advice and questionnaires that will help you to identify what it is you each want and what your comfortable with. Lots of basic information on techniques and suggestions on how to apply them to get the inexperienced started.

The his and hers questionnaires are very useful in bringing everything out into the open, plus there's a lot of good practical stuff. A small book that does what it says on the tin in a no nonsense way. Do not buy her other books though; they are just regurgitations of the same stuff, but without the questionnaires.

Really enjoyed reading this. In fact I will probably need to read it again a few times.Quite empowering to those embarking on this, especially those who are naturally submissive, but for many reasons can no longer submit to a man.

As someone new to embarking on this journey as fact rather than just fantasy I've found it very informative and useful in its advice and suggestions. My girlfriend is about to read it also.