The Power of the Pussy: Get What You Want From Men: Love, Respect, Commitment and More! (Dating and Relationship Advice for Women - Get What You Want ... Respect, Commitment, and More!) (Volume 1)

I AM A MAN who bought this book as a gift for a female friend who does not have an Amazon account. I read the book because the title caught my eye and because I wanted to determine if the author was on target in terms of defining men, etc. Overall, I think it's a good read, funny, and to the point. I didn't agree with everything because I think the book could have shined a better light on men, but I will agree with one statement that stuck out for me on page 129 under the heading MEN LIE ABOUT LOVE. It's true that men sometimes lie about love. If we tell you that we love you and we act otherwise, then we are probably lying. Have I done this in the past? Not me because I have only loved one woman and I told her that. She knows it. But we men (depending on how full of shit we are) will lie to get some pussy. My advice to all women is that if we act contrary to what we say, something is probably up and we have something (perhaps other girls) on our minds. If we are with you and we get lots of texts during our time together, then something might be up. We don't always think with our hearts, which is why men are said to be from Mars and women are from Venus. This is just my little input. Also, since a lot of women will probably be reading this review I want to tell as many women as possible something important. Please, please, please tell us men what you want. Don't expect us to guess what you want in life and in bed. Tell us what you want. The dilemma for centuries between men and women is that women don't tell us what they want. My girlfriend is the same way and all the women before that. If you want to have sex, then tell us. If you want to go to a certain place, then tell us. If you want us to rock your world, then tell us. As I speak among my male friends their biggest problem with women is that they don't tell us what they want clearly enough and as often enough. If you want to be happy with us, then give us a few hints and tell us exactly what is on your mind. It really frustrates us to keep wondering and guessing. Ok, well this is my review. I am going to give this book to my friend and hope she gets a bang out of it.

So far I have read a plethora of relationship books and this one is at the top of my list. It's a quick read about 225 pages, all you need is the first four chapters! This book is raw! Kara King tells it like it is. If you are sensitive and have a low self esteem toughen up, get a therapist. She lets you know that lack of confidence in no way will attract a man. If you want to know what attracts and deters men from your path, this is the book for you. For those who have read only a few pages of this book and believe Kara King is a man basher, you didn't read far enough into the book. I highly suggest chapter 6 in which the author tells us ladies that we tend to over look the good guys for shallow reasons. I have to say she's right, both sexes are guilty of choosing a partner with looks over brains. I do however suggest that you read more than just one book to empower yourself. Broadening your knowledge and communication skills is what will lead you to finding the right man. As of now I have many dates lined up and i'm very much pursued by the opposite sex. I owe it all to developing self confidence and researching. The following books should be read as well: Act Like A Lady Think Like A Man by Steve Harvey, Why Men Love Bitches by Sherry Argov. If you feel you need to work on your communication skills with the opposite sex you must read Men are from Mars Women are from Venus by John Gray. Not only will your communication skills improve you will gain insight as to why men act the way they do. What makes them tick and most of all how to complement a man with positive affirmations, this builds your confidence and his! He's happy your happy, there will be less nagging involved and more peace, I promise! I also feel in todays technologically advanced society females are easily available, when access should be limited to the opposite sex. Learn how to handle yourself via text messaging, e-mailing, and of course social networking sites such as Facebook. A great book that covers these topics would be Not Your Mothers Rules By Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider. And finally if you feel you have been duped, played, etc you need to look for red flags and this advice goes to both men and women. There are people out there who are quite successful at playing others and you need to be capable of detecting such types. They get away with it because their experts and have been for quite some time. I recommend The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene. Not everyone is out to get you but be aware of those who carry these unique personality traits. Detecting BS is half the battle. As knowledgeable as I am now I use my wisdom to the best of my abilities and I do not lead others on. Once you acquire the needed confidence do not forget to treat others the way you would like to be treated. If someone no longer interest you, make sure you state it kindly. Good luck to all of you!

Ok, full disclosure. I’m a guy who read this with intrigue. The author has an uncanny insight into the male spyche. I just wish she would write the reverse for men! I may not agree with all of it, however the bulk of the material is gold. For all the ladies out there, if you’re wondering what the hell makes men tick, then read this book!

Great book for the girls looking for a relationship or trying to leave a relationship but are blinded by love!

If you are an introvert girl and a bit scrupulous, the book will liberate you. It teaches some things that men have been doing, so says the writer: that is, doing women for fun and experiment, heartlessly. It even says that women must try out different men: older, younger, sugar daddies, toy boys and so on. The writer assumes that what women have between their legs is the greatest weakness of men. Maybe. Women have been as manipulative, so long as my experience goes, as men. Not just that, they have this amazing skill to represent themselves as 'victims', no matter what. But the book will definitely give shy girls a boost.

女子はみんな必読でしょー!! タイトルに惹かれて購入。笑 いやいやこれがまた引き込まれるわおもしろいわ。 女に生まれたからには楽しまなきゃ！と気づかせて頂きました。 自信のない女性にこそ読んでもらいたい1冊。 女としての価値とは?またその価値を最大限に活かして目当ての男性を手に入れる方法が書かれてます。 オーディブルで聞きましたが、友達が語りかけてるような感じですごくよかった。 全部聞き終わった後は今後の期待にもうワクワクドキドキ。 自分はモテないから。。。 出会いがないし。。。 いつも遊ばれておしまい。。。 そんな人にこそ読んでほしい!

Das Buch ist teilweise etwas vulgär aber alles in Allem so geschrieben als würde man mit einer Freundin sprechen. Wahre Fakten und sehr augenöffnend wenn man aktuell in einer sehr giftigen Beziehung ist. Ein Muss für alle Frauen!