Fury

This book could be very helpful to anyone who has been preyed on by narcissists. A narcissist himself, H G Tudor explains how narcs "strive to provoke anger in you" as a way of getting that emotional satisfaction ('fuel') they are hourly dependent on by thinking they can control your emotions. Tudor also explains how all narcs are perennially simmering with rage. Normal people sometimes wonder why sometimes bursts into rage for no reason, but this book shows how the fury is always there, and needs very little to ignite it. I have read numerous books on narcs (and knew several of them) so I know the ground quite well. I was particularly interested in the reasons why Tudor says daily life causes his fury to flare up. What particularly gets him is criticism given in a scientific, unemotional way — for instance, by one of his college professors. "When...anybody criticises us then you are negating our splendour...". Yes, the Narcs are desperate to believes that they are superior; it's an inferiority complex they suffer from, at heart. So if you tell them they are two minutes late or even if you praise someone else then even these small things can turn them against you forever.

Having lived through a nightmare marriage to a narcissist this book along with Manipulated and Fuel (by the same author) helped me fully understand what had happened and how to handle it in the future. Other books don't come close to these in going into detail about their warped thinking that they consider to be normal.

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So many confused questions when we deal with a narcissist and his furious behaviour.. this is the book which explains everything... from how the Narcissists perceive criticism to how he deal with it and why. I would suggest to open Your minds and hearts and not to read this book with hate... thank You HG for another pleasure

Something vexes thee? Could it be Fury? Another wicked read by HG Tudor. Fury is one of the many diabolical instruments of the narcissist’s toolbox and it is described here as uncontrollable, savage and simmering. This book details two types of rage: fury and cold fury and how and why the narcissist chooses to use them. You will read about fury’s relevance to the narcissist and who the progenitors were, as well as, the reasons fury is used, how it manifests, why it waxes and wanes and what triggers it. Here you will discover that there are three applications of fury and when and why they are employed, in addition to the secondary functions. The narcissist’s façade is a thin patina that just barely suppresses an undercurrent of magmatic rage; (s)he is ready to explode at the slightest of criticisms. Do you wonder why the narcissist is always in a state of turbulence? Read Fury and you will find out.

I was looking to try to understand what a sibling was going through as he would become Furious in the space of a few seconds over what I thought were very petty things. Mr. Tudor, writing in the first person, gave me a glimpse of what sets off a narcissistic rage and what feeds that fury beyond all reason. I went through this e-book in less than 30 minutes while traveling in a car and could not put it down. It would be a fascinating read if it were Fiction but because it was written by someone who himself was diagnosed with Narcissistic Personality Disorder, it became even more horrifying because it was true.

I have read several books from this author and they have given me pieces to the puzzle that I had not figured out on my own. These books have gone a long way in helping me accept it was never my fault. I very much appreciate the fact that it comes from a narcissist and the honesty is very refreshing after years of lies.

I have read so much on narcissism and HG Tudors books are the best out there. I recommend reading all his works to get the answers you need to heal. You won't be disappointed and you will finally understand everything so you can make the right decisions for yourself.

A very informative read. HG helps victims understand where the narcissists inner fury originates from, what triggers it, the various ways in which it manifests, and when a certain type of fury will be most likely be utilized. This read will make victim makes sense out of seemingly nonsensical behavior(s).- Dr. SEK