Surrender, Submit, Serve Her.: The definitive guide to enacting Female Leadership and embracing the Female Dominated Household. Paperback – December 22, 2016

Key Barrett, M.Sc. is one of the authors in the growing new line of FLR books to provide a FLR framework without BDSM kink. Ten years ago, the FLR relationship was a fetish/kink and very rare for couples to adopt. We tried and it just didn't work. Books included elements that one or both people in a relationship found difficult to practice. These new books (this one among several others), absent BDSM kink are refreshing additions.My wife and I read it cover to cover twice. Three times per week, we read out loud for 30 minutes before going to bed and discussed as we went along. My wife and I have reordered our relationship into a female dominated household where she is the leader, and I am the subordinate. We mostly follow the suggestions in the book, but not all. As is recommended, she picked and chose elements that fit her wishes.We do have a weekly meeting, as the book suggests. She also makes all the big decisions, delegates several chores, and my pay is direct deposited into an account at her bank I do not have access to (unless I use a teller window). I compile a list of bills and total the amount each pay cycle. She Zella's me the funds to pay the bills from my bank account. All other money, I need to ask her for. She is now free to spend how she sees fit with the combined disposable income.Family vacationing, child rearing methods, where we live (we are moving soon), and all other big decisions are made by her now. Sometimes she asked my input before making a decision and other times she simply let me know what is happening. I feel at ease and a sense of support and seeing things from her perspective has developed, making my role feel rewarding. I know it doesn't seem like it should, but that is the truth. FLR when working, is the natural order, IMHO. It need be experienced to understand. Words do not convey it well.This book was tremendously helpful for us and I thank the author for his efforts.

Very practical. If you are wired for a female led relationship, this book can save you a lot of trial and error.

I enjoyed reading this one. The writing is good, the sub topics were carefully chosen, and it has a clear mission of guidance for any couple that would like to transition to a female led household.Too many ebooks on the subject are poorly constructed. The writing is poor. More importantly, there is a heavy handed emphasis on female superiority that is very unattractive. Female superiority as a concept is the basis for one of the kink subcultures. Fortunately, this author gave a balanced treatment of what female led relationship means. It is one way of deliberately arranging power and control in the relationship. With a lot of conscious thought, true consent, and setting a clear intention a couple can both reduce stress and really enjoy each other. FLR can be a lot of fun. An FLR is meant to be beneficial to both partners. Checking in with your partner on a regular basis is key.I, personally, hate the porn depictions of femdom in which the female rules by intimidation and various forms of violence. Anyone can see that this is a nasty mimicry of male domination. Historically, female leadership has been very different. It’s core is based on collaboration and care. Mistress Sky, author, Unequal Partnership

This is a really excellent book -- BUT DON'T GIVE IT TO HER RIGHT AWAY.The majority of FLRs/WLMs ( Female Led Relationships / Wife Led Marriages ) start with the man wanting one and confronting his Woman -- scaring Her half to death. This book is an essential part of a successful process to avoid Her thinking that you've gone completely nuts.The man should have first read Key Barrett's "Locked-In Love" (2018) -- that book can later serve as a "trial run" of one optional aspect of an FLR. (All books I mention are available on Amazon.)Next, the man should obtain Hightower's "The Hesitant Mistress", and read the WARNING inside the cover.Now, schedule a weekend away, where She is fully in charge of everything (plans everything, does the driving, carries all your money, etc.). At the end of that weekend, give her "The Hesitant Mistress" to read as you two drive home.I suggest following that book with Key Barrett's "Surrender, Submit, Serve Her" (2016) AND Georgia Ivey Green's "How to Set Up An FLR: A Couple's Guide..." (2013).Beyond that -- look up Marisa Rudder's series of 16 books in Amazon.A point I should make clear -- these books are about a man submitting, NOT becoming a slave (although that is possible, with other books). Also, FLR/WLM has Levels 1 through 4 -- you can Google them, so do that in advance.

Not bad a bit one sided . But I didn't expect it to be different

I dony know what the issue is on this book.